COMING SOON

I am many things.

This book started with a pile of drawings.

Alba, my four-year-old, began handing me her artwork one page at a time, asking each time, "Mummy, can you please add words to my drawings?"

She wanted her pictures to have a story. And I didn't know what to write yet.

So I told her, "Let's make a pile. We'll turn them into a book one day." While I didn't yet have the words, I could already see the beauty in every squiggle and stick figure and smiling sun. A child drawing the world exactly as she saw it, before anyone had suggested she see it differently.

And then I found the words. Because I had spent thirty-two years being asked, quietly, persistently, without anyone ever quite saying it out loud, to see myself differently. To be less Filipino. To be more "Australian". To make myself easier for a world that hadn't made much room for all of me.

Making this book with Alba has been healing in ways I didn't expect. It took me back to something simple. To play. To the uncomplicated joy of making something just because it matters to you.

These pages are everything I wish someone had whispered to me before the world got loud.

I hope they find your child before the world gets loud for them too. And if you've already been deafened by it, I hope this reminds you of your voice.

I understand the quiet ache of reaching for a language that was never quite passed down, or was lost somewhere along the way and that’s why I made this book bilingual. This book won't fix that, but I hope it makes the reaching a little easier.

This also opens something I find quietly beautiful. A Lola who speaks Tagalog but not English can read it. A child who speaks English but not Tagalog can follow. A parent somewhere in between can hold both at once. Different generations, different fluencies, different relationships to the same language — all of them welcome in these pages, all of them able to find their way in.

This book is a place where the whole multilingual, multigenerational, beautiful mess of a multicultural family can sit together and belong.

It all starts with a story

What happens when that story is extracted, reshaped, and served back without care, consent, or connection? And what are the possibilities when ethical storytelling is practiced?

Watch this webinar for Social Enterprise Australia where Doug Cronin and Dung Tran from Our Race, Jennifer Johannesen from For Purpose Advisory and I dig into what ethical storytelling actually looks like. Beyond buzzwords. Beyond checkboxes.

We’re talking:
- When stories are misused and the harm it causes
- How legal, branding, marketing and community roles need to work together
- Why co-design and consent aren’t just paperwork
- And what it means to hold stories with integrity, not ownership

More info in this webinar here.

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